The False Self Series, Part 9: Fear Makes Me Play it Safe
Fear is a human condition — but our culture and our history like to tell us that leaders aren’t fearful. To lead from your real self, don’t let fear make you play it safe.
The False Self Series, Part 8: Not Forgiving Others
When someone wrongs us, it’s tempting to hold onto it. But refusing to forgive others only increases our burden. Here’s what I’ve learned about forgiveness.
The False Self Series, Part 7: Not Speaking Up
What happens when your false self does the talking for you? You miss opportunities to create a real connection and have a positive impact on those around you. Here’s why real leaders aim to speak with authenticity.
The False Self Series, Part 6: Beating Myself Up about the Past
Raise your hand if you beat yourself up over your past mistakes, playing scenarios over and over in your mind under the guise of “holding yourself accountable” — I know I do. And I’ve also realized it’s a cowardly way to live. I think I’ve found a healthier alternative.
One More Question for a New Year, New Perspective
Last week, I shared three questions that I’m focusing on this year in an effort to keep my perspective clear. Of course, after I posted the blog, I thought of one more question I wanted to add that impacts how we look at external situations.
My New Year Promise
I was in a terrible funk at the end of 2022, one which I knew would continue into the new year if I didn’t make a concerted effort to regain perspective. Here’s how I did it, and the three questions I’m asking myself every day in 2023.
Quiet Quitting
Quiet quitting — doing just the bare minimum at your job and nothing more — has been in the news a lot lately. Here’s my advice to leaders, and to those who are thinking about quiet quitting.
New Year, Same Old Mechanic
Like many folks, the start of a new year causes me to take stock of where I am, what’s worked for me, and where I’ve fallen short in trying to fix myself — and it turns out, I’m a lousy mechanic! Thankfully, I know someone who is — and He’s the same old mechanic I’ve been taking my problems to for years.
Best Of: Letter to My Grandpa
Like many of you, I’m at home spending the holidays with my family — and that makes me think about a man who had a great impact on my life, my grandpa. Here’s a repost from last spring — my annual “Letter to My Grandpa” in honor of his birthday.
Best Of: Living Your Love
Happy holidays! As we focus on family, allow me to share some of my favorite previously-posted family-focused blog posts over the Christmas season. Today’s post is “Living Your Love” — the things I’ve learned about love from my beautiful wife, Sarah. Enjoy!