Practicing Encouragement

February 23, 2026

Sometimes the hardest feedback is the truest. Before Christmas, an employee told me I’d stopped being an encouraging leader. They were right. Here’s what I’m doing about it—and why your team may need to hear encouraging words from you this week.

Don’t Confuse Quiet with Better

February 9, 2026

There’s an issue at work that is getting a lot of attention. But over time, things quiet down. That means the situation got resolved, right? Not necessarily. Just because things get quiet doesn’t mean they’re fixed. As a leader, it’s up to you to peek beneath the silence and solve the real problem.

Leadership Themes for 2026

January 26, 2026

Following up on my 2026 leadership themes, I want to share the ‘why’ and ‘how’ behind them. This isn’t just about productivity; it’s a shift from managing a workload to embracing a calling of stewardship. It’s about bringing order to the mess — which leads me to ask: How are YOU creating clarity against the chaos this year?

Leadership Themes for 2026 

January 12, 2026

Every year, I create a handful of “themes” that help guide my leadership practices for the next 12 months. Here’s the list that I created for 2026 — including a few updates to 2025 themes where I fell a little short. What does your list look like for 2026?

It Is Always My Job: Lessons from 2025

December 9, 2025

At baggage claim, a frustrated worker said, “THIS ISN’T MY F’ING JOB.” My response? “Well, it’s not mine either, but I’m going to do something about it.” That moment gave me a mantra for 2025: it is always my job. Some reflections on a year of hard lessons, lost opportunities, and why freedom means having nothing to hide.

The 30 Practices That Make Me a Better Leader (When I Actually Do Them)

November 24, 2025

After sharing how I fail, here’s the flip side: 30 daily practices that make me better at leading and living. None revolutionary, all transformational. From Bible reading to gratitude journals to hugging my kids — here’s leadership on my best days.

The 25 Ways I Consistently Fail as a Leader (And Why I’m Sharing Them)

November 11, 2025

Most leadership content tells you what to do right. I’m sharing the 25 ways I most often fail as a leader — because real growth starts when we stop pretending we have it all figured out.

A Letter to My Middle Son

October 27, 2025

Ben’s golf strategy for us: “You hit the safe shot, I’ll hit the aggressive shot.” My advice to him as he grows up? Never stop being aggressive. Especially in pursuing Jesus.

What I Learned at 38,000 Feet

October 13, 2025

Sometimes it takes being trapped at 38,000 feet to remember basic humanity. I shook hands with a politician I disagree with and was reminded we’re all just trying to get home. Why is that so hard to remember on the ground?

Things I am Thankful For 

September 30, 2025

Birthdays are for gratitude. I’m thankful for the peer who challenged me, the jobs I didn’t get, the day I met Sarah, and the work that grew me in ways I never expected.