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Why Read History?

A recent study conducted by the Conference on Jewish Material Claims Against Germany found that 41% of all respondents (and two-thirds of millennial respondents) could not correctly identify what happened at Auschwitz. Making matters worse, 22% of the Millennial respondents told the same survey that they have NEVER even heard of the Holocaust.

This is horrifying. And as George Santayana famously said, “those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.”

While I passionately urge all people, especially Americans, to read and understand history, the readers of this blog are generally business people looking for leadership insights. So why should you read history? Here are three reasons:

Reading history gives one perspective.

I often hear people say that the world is worse today than it has ever been. While this sounds true, and admittedly sometimes feels true when I watch the news, a quick historical glance makes one doubt the statement’s accuracy. Are things worse today than they were for the African Americans in the nineteenth century, or Eastern Europeans in the mid-twentieth century? Of course not. But it is also trite to then automatically assume things for both groups are “better” today because in comparison they are much better off than in those periods. This is my point about perspective.

History forces one to examine reality, think critically about differing versions of that reality, and draw conclusions. I have discovered that real history is rarely what I expected. Thus, I have to be inquisitive and challenge any pre-existing assumptions, which in turn grows my perspective about various events and time-periods. Learning to think this way is directly applicable to everyday business because it teaches you to always question your pre-existing assumptions on any issue.

Reading history gives one real-life leadership examples.

The best business book I have read so far this year is Ron Chernow’s Grant, which documents the life of Ulysses S. Grant. I can’t begin to recount all the leadership lessons in the book, so you will have to read it yourself. One story that continues to stand out, however, is how Grant treated Confederate General Robert E. Lee as he, and his forces, surrendered at Appomattox. Realizing the task at hand – rebuilding the nation – and never being one to “show up” his adversaries, Grant treated the soon-to-be former General with so much respect and deference that it even surprised Lee. In a modern world that continues to tempt us (me included) to be brash, this is an example of humility for us to follow. Of course, reading biographies can also teach us lessons not to follow, and Grant’s life had plenty of those as well (don’t we all?). But herein lies the power of reading historical biographies: we can learn from other’s success and failure and implement the lessons into our own life.

Reading history is humbling.

Finally, I often hear many Americans talk about how advanced our modern civilization is. Some even look down upon how “stupid” Americans were from centuries past. Reading history reminds one that the advancement of civilization is never-ending. In fact, if you read enough history, there will be a whisper that develops in your head: We aren’t as smart as we think we are, and our time will, too, end. While the latter may be a little depressing to think about, it is reality. There is no guarantee our business will be here in ten years, let alone fifty, and we know that at some point down the line our human life will end. All historical biographies end the same after all. The point is that this reality produces humility: Our business does not have all the answers, and there are no guarantees that we as a company will be around forever. This should help us be more humble, willing to seek help in our business dealing, and willing to help others with our business.

This post is longer than usual, so I won’t list any recommended books here. But, please feel free to comment and share history books that have impacted you. And if you have never read a good history book, I would recommend anything written by David McCullough to get you started, as his narrative style is often welcoming to those who prefer reading fiction.

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Embrace the Pain

I had a recent conversation with my trainer, Jimmy, about the counter-intuitive nature of bodybuilding. He was challenging me prior to one of our last sets of the session, “your body is going to be screaming ‘go faster’ and burn through this set, I want you to overpower your natural emotions and continue to work the muscle in the way this exercise intends to.”

Halfway through the set —it was excruciating —I was reminded that this advice pertains to all areas of life, business especially.

As I frequently write and talk about, organizational life is reactionary these days. Everyone is on the run, everyone is busy, and there is little time to spare. Organizationally, “pounding through the last set,” is sending a reply-all to the 33rd email in the chain (that sort of thing never happens at Hoffer Plastics…), rather than having a one-on-one conversation with the main person you need to connect with. It is assuming the worst when your team member writes or says something–again in email–that can easily be misconstrued, and venting to all the other team members without having a crucial conversation with the person who said it. It is “taking the issue off-line,” getting 38 people around the table (okay 38 is a little bit of an exaggeration but you get the idea) and everyone throwing logs on to the fire without anyone actually stepping up to be accountable for resolution. It is the sense that a lot was just discussed, and “we have a plan,” but three days later that “plan” hasn’t even left the gate for take-off because nobody is captaining the plane.

The examples are endless. They’re all hurried, sloppy, and not efficient in the long run, just like sloppy workouts are.

“Everyone is busy” is often the excuse, isn’t it? But isn’t the real reason that we lack discipline? Slowing down, properly trouble-shooting an issue, and deciding who is accountable, often brings with it the “lactic acid” that a burn-out set does. There is burning and pain, but in the end there is also progress.

This kind of execution and efficiency is counter-intuitive. If it was not, more organizations would be wildly successful.

Doing things the right way is never easy.

As I have said before, often the best decision or strategy is on the other side of your comfort zone. In a world of constant virtual connectivity, slowing down and aligning with fellow human beings is anything but comfortable.

(On that note, if you are reading this Jimmy, I don’t pay you to go light. If it does not suck, we are not doing it. See you tomorrow at 6 a.m.).

And since training fires me up, I’ll end with the question I ask myself every Friday morning when I am driving down Randall Road in the pitch black of the early morning:

How bad do you want it?

I have to ask this question because I am always tired, and it’s always tempting to take the easy way out.

If you want your organization to be mediocre, you don’t have to do embrace the pain.

You can even sleep in.

If you want to improve, however, you have to embrace the counter-intuitive nature of slowing down and acting with discipline.

You have to rise and go.

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Why the Chicago Bulls Won Six Titles

I am from Chicago and grew up in the 1980’s and 1990’s. So, I know more about Michael Jordan, and the Chicago Bulls’ glory years of the 1990’s than I’d like to admit. The championships, celebrations, and fun accompanying them, still reverberate in my mind all these years later.

What made the Chicago Bulls great? The easy answer is Michael Jordan, arguably the greatest basketball player in the history of the National Basketball Association. But this answer is too simplistic, and misses something that was much discussed during the Bulls heyday: the importance of role players.

The day was June 14, 1992. The Bulls were leading the Portland Trailblazers 3 games to 2 in their best of 7 NBA Finals Series. Playing on their home court, the Bulls were in position to win their second NBA Championship in a row. But trailing by 17 points in the fourth quarter, the game looked lost. Both Michael Jordan and Scottie Pippen —an all-time great in his own right —were on the bench, and what happened next is legendary for Chicago Bulls fans: Bobby Hansen hit a three-point field goal—his only points of the entire game—that sparked a furious rally by players coming off the Bulls’ bench. These guys were not stars, but rather, role players. They knew, and accepted their roles on the team, and played them with humility and gave everything they had on the court. And before the afternoon was over, with both MJ and Scottie dominating the game down the stretch, the Chicago Bulls were NBA Champions again, winning the game 97-93.

When I mention Bobby Hansen to fellow Bulls fans, they always remember the play I refer to above. Moreso, they can name role players like Steve Kerr, Bill Wennington, and Jud Buechler from later Championship teams. These players taught us that playing a role on the team was vital to a team’s ultimate success. As the Bulls’ Head Coach Phil Jackson would remind us regularly in TV interviews, the team succeeded when Michael “let the game come to him,” and kept his “teammates involved.”  This created chemistry, and the “Zen”  Jackson desired for the team.  It all worked because Michael played his role, that of the superstar, and the role players played theirs. 

And each needed the other.

A comment I heard Adam Grant make recently on the EntreLeadership Podcast got me thinking about how the Bulls were able to mix role players with superstars. Grant says, “If you only hire ‘A’ players, then you probably have a ‘B’ team.”   Leaders tend to spend a lot of their energy, however, on hiring “A” players.  We read books, attend seminars, and create hiring strategies around hiring “A” players because we know that we need some “A” players to win (The Chicago

Bulls were pathetic both before and after Michael Jordan!). Yet, as Grant reminds us, hiring “A” all players won’t ensure success.  Rather, like the Chicago Bulls, we need to fill out our roster with role players so that every role is filled.

In practice, this might mean that a sales leader seeks a solid “account manager,” rather than seeking another “business development manager.”  This is subtle, but one role demands relational and support skills, while the other demands a lot of self-confidence and drive usually associated with an “A” player.  Organizations need both to thrive, so it is up to the leader to decipher which skill set they need in a given context.

The challenge with this post is simple: ask yourself what kind of role are you missing on your team right now?  Driving to specificity here makes all the difference.

You might discover that you are not missing a superstar, but rather a “Bobby Hansen.”

And fulfilling this role might similarly make all the difference to your team’s ultimate success!

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Make the Choice

Occasionally, I get some candid feedback about this blog. Recently, someone told me, “Some of your blog posts are good, others are not so much.”

This is not the only time I have heard someone say that. (And let’s be honest, it probably is an accurate assessment!)

The choice —and even if you are not publishing a blog for the world to see, you still have this choice —is whether or not you are going to let feedback like this slow you down.

Haters will aways hate.

Creators will always create.

It is your choice.

I’m posting this, so I have already made mine.

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To Rocky

I need to start by saying this is not good-bye. As I thought about this day many times over the last few months, I have comforted myself with the thought that your house is right around the corner. But I have to admit that I hate this.

Don’t get me wrong, I am happy for you. While I grew up watching the example of my grandfather who never retired, you taught me that retirement is a gift for the team members (our family members!) at Hoffer Plastics.

Of course the organization will miss your relentless pursuit of being the best molder in the building, and probably in the history of Hoffer Plastics. Of course, I will miss that too, but it is not what I will really miss.

More than anything else, I will miss the conversations we had waiting to fly to North Carolina, or Montreal. I’ll miss being stuck in the Air Canada Club with you for eight hours, and hearing your perspective on operational leadership. I’ll miss your emotion. Manufacturing is hard, and there might not be crying in baseball, but you have taught me that there is some crying in manufacturing! You have always cared deeply, and that care has NEVER wavered. It shone through in all our talks, and I have always come home feeling, “Thank God Rocky is on our team.”

Transition is hard, emotional, and flat out weird. The last six months have been difficult, and I am extremely thankful for your grace during this period.

I’ll always be grateful for the sacrifices you, Brenda, and your family made as the company grew. And I’ll also be forever in your debt for not telling my parents about that one time I was at your house during High School.

But that would incriminate us both, so some tales are best left untold!

Your slice is still wicked at times, so I hope that retirement helps that! I’m sure I’ll get to see the progress. When are we playing?

Thank you.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

You have made a tremendous impact on my life.

I hope we can make you proud as the ship leaves the dock with a new captain.

I believe we will.

But I also know it will never be the same.

I love you.

Alex

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Did WE get a bonus?

“Did WE get a bonus,” asked Sarah as I walked into the door. It was the end of the year, the company had done well, and so her anticipation was appropriate.

“Yes, WE did,” I replied.

All of us play a “we” game.

Take me for example.

Without Sarah, I wouldn’t travel nearly as much. Without Sarah, I wouldn’t have the flexibility to stay late, or walk the floor on Saturday mornings. Without Sarah, I’d come to work needing affirmation, instead of finding it at home. Without Sarah, my blog would be much worse (and that may not have anything to do with work or the bonus, but it would surely impact you, the reader!).

The company wins because of the sacrifices Sarah makes.

Yes, WE got a bonus.

You have a support team behind you as well: family and friends who fortify you physically and emotionally in order to allow you to show up every day and give your all.

And your team members at work have a support system of people, too—people you may never meet—who indirectly benefit your company even though their names aren’t on the payroll.

Everyone brings their life with them to work.

As leaders we need to not only remember this, we have to remember to reward the sacrifices THEY make, too. Granted, a bonus is one way. But it surely is not the only way.

Let’s remember, and honor, the people behind the people we count on each day.

It is a “we” game.

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Making Yourself Better vs. Making Yourself Feel Better

Recently on his podcast, Tim Ferriss considered the differences between making yourself better and making yourself feel better. As he explained, making yourself better forces you to confront your own weaknesses and do something about them. This takes time, humility, and a willingness to sacrifice short-term comfort for long-term growth. Conversely, making yourself feel better can happen instantaneously, but often only lasts momentarily.

This got me thinking about how much of life is now oriented to the moment:

-Tweet or post something that makes you look good.

-Indulge in the large dessert.

-Ask Alexa to order something you want but don’t really need.

-Reply All to get your point across.

-Gossip about the latest drama involving someone who has irritated you.

-Read the latest “bing” on your phone instead of looking your spouse in the eye when they’re talking to you.

The list is not close to being exhaustive. The challenge is things like this come up frequently. But are we committed to making ourselves better?

Consider how different choices can actually produce long-term, lasting improvement:

-Not posting self-promotional things on social media slowly chips away at our selfishness and helps us genuinely celebrate others.

-Passing on the dessert until it is adequately earned in the gym eventually leads to weight loss and better self image.

-Saying no to unnecessary consumerism over time allows you the peace and freedom of financial security.

-Letting someone else get the last word allows you to grow in humility.

-Conversing directly with someone you have conflict with created relational peace and deeper relationships.

-Turning your phone off so that your attention is entirely on your spouse creates space for authentic conversations that bond you together and grow your marriage.

These are choices we face every day.

You just have to be willing to do the harder thing, for now, so that you can get better in the long run.

Isn’t that the way to feeling better—really feeling better—in the long-term anyway?

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