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#TuesdayT – Humility

Someone recently asked my opinion about how my local church conducts its weekend services.  I told this person that while I would prefer some changes be made, I take the vow I make every September – to submit to the leadership of the Trustees, Elders, and Staff -very seriously.  Therefore, my opinions are only that, opinions. So, as long as our Church leadership continues to teach God’s word, I can set my preferences aside, and fully submit to the leaders’ authority.

Here is today’s #TuesdayT:

One cannot be an effective leader unless they have areas in their life where they are submitting to the leadership of others. Submitting to the leadership of others is a necessary ingredient of leadership, because submission requires humility.  Humility is the ability to think about yourself less, and others more. It is the realization that others’ ideas, like the leaders at your local Church, or your Executive Team at work, may be better than your own.  Finally, it is the ability to submit even when you don’t think those ideas are.  Or perhaps, especially when you don’t think those ideas are.

This matters in leadership because often the best ideas are not your own.  Without humility, you will miss these, and lose your effectiveness.

So, let’s practice humility this week.

Let’s become the kind of person other people want to follow.

(A friendly reminder: Many of us will have the opportunity to practice this kind of humility as the election results roll in this evening. There is nothing humble about spewing venom on social media.  Nor, is anyone “converted” to your thinking via a social media rant. Post wisely, if at all).

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#TheoThursday Ecclesiastes

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Welcome to another semi-regular reoccurring post entitled, #TheoThursday. These posts will examine the intersection of faith and career. The goal is for the reader to come away with new appreciation for how relevant the Bible is to their life.

Disclaimer: The Bible is misinterpreted all the time.  Not only does misinterpretation cause harm, it also sways people’s opinion about God, and all things spiritual.  Sadly, the worst offenders are often those claiming to be knowledgeable.  Therefore, I make no such claims.  Back up anything I say in these posts with the Bible, and commentaries from trained theologians (don’t worry, we aren’t going that deep!). Further, I highly encourage anyone interested in learning more about the Bible to checkout these resources:

NIV Study Bible

The Bible Project

Bible Savvy

Bible Savvy Journal and Reading Schedule


Ecclesiastes

The Bible Savvy Journal and Reading Schedule turned to the book of Ecclesiastes this week.  Therefore, I spent about 45 minutes on Saturday morning studying the context of the book (reading the Introduction in my NIV Study Bible, and watching the Bible Project intro video).  What struck me was the Hebrew word “Hevel.” This word has many meanings in the English language (vapor, futile, meaningless, etc.), but it seems to be most often translated to “meaningless” in Ecclesiastes. 

For example, arguably the most famous passage in Ecclesiastes, “I have seen all the things that are done under the sun; all of them are meaningless, a chasing after the wind” (Ecclesiastes 1:14).

I have thought about this reality a lot lately.

The teacher is not saying that everything is meaningless.

Our jobs, for instance, have meaning. Even the plastic parts we produce have meaning.

But, like a cloud, their meaning is momentary.  Here today, and gone tomorrow.

Darker is the reality that none of our accomplishments will last forever.  In the book, the teacher reminds us that we will eventually die and leave everything behind for others. “Hevel,” he cries!  This is humbling when you spend your day working at the business your now departed grandfather created…

My time will eventually come too, I just hope the Bears win the Super Bowl again before that time (keep your comments to yourself Mark).

As the Cubs taught me in 2016, even that is Hevel.

Two weeks ago, our pastor, Jim, pointed out that pursuing wisdom, pleasure, or work for their own ends leads to Hevel. Like sand, we cannot grasp these things for long. They quickly sink through our fingertips.

So, where does that leave us?

Pastor Jim closed with this point over the weekend, “fear God and enjoy the ride.” His can’t miss talk discussed the reality of this broken world, and how often it feels like “God is not in control.”  Yet, we are told to trust him anyway.

Ups and downs will come in our personal life, and in our business life.  That’s just the reality in a broken world.

But, there is hope.

I don’t have the answers to the tougher questions of life.  I can attest, however, to the reality that my life is better when I fear God (another way of saying obey, have reverence for, am in awe of, and submit to).  It is in these times that I am not chasing after the mist – Hevel – because I no longer have to.

I am content.

Therefore, fear God and enjoy the ride.

Prayer Request – Please join me in praying for all those impacted by the tragedy at the Pittsburgh Synagogue last Saturday morning.  Pray that God provides peace that surpasses all human understanding.  I stand with my Jewish brothers and sisters.

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Interdependance

I often dream about managing a major league baseball team. While I imagine the job would be more difficult than most baseball fans think, I’d enjoy the rhythm of the baseball season.  Think about some of the advantages: clear definition around who wins and who loses, the games have a definitive end to them, so do the seasons, and the players all work towards the same result.  Baseball purists may argue that team chemistry is important, and assuredly it is, but managers never deal with players questioning what other players are doing (although they may question their contribution level). For example, the first-basemen isn’t wondering what job the centerfielder is doing out in the outfield.  Not only is it clear that he is playing centerfield, it is also clear that the first baseman needs the centerfielder to play their position so that the team can get three outs and get back to hitting.  Interdependency is a given in baseball, as it is most other sports.

Is interdependency a given in our organizations?

Given the volume written on corporate culture and teamwork, it obviously is not.  Silos, for one, are a symptom of an organization that is not working interdependently   They’re an indicator that group A does not trust group B, and may be even suspicious of them.  “We are better off doing this ourselves,” is a common phrase for this team.  “They don’t get things done on time.” Or, “we are always waiting on that department.  If they delivered on time, we’d really be rocking.”

To be clear, I am speaking from experience.  I have heard those things said at Hoffer Plastics, and it always irritates me.  It irritates me because we have really good people on our team.  People who work their tails off.  So, this shouldn’t be a problem.

Given that it sometimes is, here are two actions leaders can take to help resolve this issue.

First, leaders need to push decision making downward throughout the organization. Craig Groeschel made this point at the 2018 Global Leadership Summit while discussing necessary leadership qualities, and his point resonated with me because our manufacturing culture has historically been built on the “expertise” of the few. In fact, there is a list of “first names” everyone recognizes – a characteristic of an “expert” culture.  To be clear, there are many positives to the “expert” culture – problem-solving, accountability, and performance (you can’t be an “expert” if you don’t perform after all!), and it has worked well for us at times.

Like anything, however, there are problems with it.  For one, it eventually places a lid on future growth.  For if you are relying on a few “experts,” you can only take on so much. It also creates a lack of interdependency.  This happens when groups, even teams, wait to hear what the “expert” has to say about a matter or issue.  The organization can even wind to a halt as it waits for the “expert” to save the day, or simply fix the problem.  God forbid if the “expert” goes on vacation.  Who allowed that!   The point here is that when the team is waiting, the organization is not moving forward.

Ironically, pushing decision making downward in the organization actually creates more experts.  In fact, I’m dying for the day when the famous list is so long nobody can remember the names on it!  It is a sign that we have created a culture of “doers,” or a culture of people making decisions and taking action.  Once they do this, they naturally realize their need of help from other people.  Thus, they become interdependent out of necessity, which is always better than the leader telling them that they should become interdependent.

The second idea, and something leaders should be talking about, is the organization’s focus.  Leaders need to reset the organization’s focus on “out there” in the customer’s hands and on the store shelves as opposed to the issues “in here.”  Before explaining this point, I want to clarify that I do believe it is the c-level’s job to “work on the business.” Hence, this necessitates that we spend a lot of time thinking about, and even talking about, what is happening “in here.”  That said, the point here is that the leaders need to set the vision so that our team focuses primarily on “out there.”  One way to do this is to always tie the internal discussion back to “out there.”  For example, remind everyone that our new ERP system matters most in how it helps us deliver parts to customers on time “out there.”  All the things it does “in here,” are just bonuses.  We need to continually voice this so that our team’s focus is always on the customer first.  Period.

In the context of interdependency, an “out there” focus helps align different business segments on what matters (serving the customer), and helps them work interdependently to that end, rather than working independently on whatever their department deems important.  See the difference? My experience has been that the more we focus on serving customer needs, the more interconnected we become as a company.  It is the ultimate rally-cry!  In fact, our best successes, often painfully accomplished, are collectively remembered by the customer’s name, and the team that helped solve the customer’s problem, rather than by the names of a few “experts.”

In the divisive world we live in, interdependency will separate the good teams from the bad ones.  Creating an atmosphere of “we are in this together” so that we can help serve those “out there,” is the job of leadership.

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Reflections on “Training the Mind.”

Back in January, I wrote a post about training the mind, and used the example of my putting routine in golf to demonstrate one area in which I was working on doing so.  I said that I would report back in October to how the golf season went, so that is what I am doing here.  What follows is not so much a commentary on my golf game, but a few reflections on routines and plans in general.

Mike Tyson supposedly said that everyone has a plan until they are punched in the face.  As I wrote back in January, I had a putting routine plan that I was going to focus on this year.  By mid-April, however, that plan began to evolve because I had been punched in the face!

What’s interesting isn’t how it evolved, but that it evolved in the first place.  This should be obvious to me by now.  After all, every post that I write evolves from the first draft to the second.  That’s how the creative process works.  What’s interesting is that I still have this expectation that I can plan something, like a routine, and stick to it throughout the project or task.  This never happens in reality; thus, I need to start planning for more contingencies at the outset of projects.  As I have been reminded this year, very few things in life are linear. ERP systems, new projects, even my golf short-game, have twists and turns that cannot be predicted in advance.  Therefore, any plan has to have room, even freedom, for flexibility and adaptability.  The benefit in understanding this reality is that I don’t freak out when I need to change, or slightly alter, the plan.  I just simply remind myself that this is part of the planning process!

As a quick aside, Daniel Coyle details some great examples of contingency planning in his must-read book, The Culture Code.  My personal favorite, and one that I have briefly mentioned on this blog, is that of the raid of Osama Bin Laden’s compound.  It succeeded because the leader anticipated things going wrong.  We all could learn something from such anticipation.

Next, and back to golf, having a concrete goal (improving putting) was detrimental to my short-term progress, but helpful to the long-term process.  That probably does not make sense, so let me explain.  In the short-term (early in the season) I was laser focused on my putting.  As most golfers can probably relate to, the laser focus led to me “pressing” and trying to make putts.  This was a disaster and led to many “3 putts,” which is something that repulses me.  I lectured myself, literally, that I need to relax, and some time in May or June, I changed my putting grip, which also helped me finally relax.

Simplifying my approach and has helped me have a very good putting season – it has also led me to simplifying other parts of my “short-game” that also need improvement for me to reach my golf goals.  What I learned here is that too much focus is not healthy.  This lesson, like the one above, applies directly to leadership at the office as well.  For the leader needs to have the wisdom to determine how much focus to put on a situation.  Read any book about performance (I mentioned The Inner Game of Tennis in my January post) and you will discover that performance requires freedom.  This applies to individual performance, and team performance.  In both circumstances, we have to stop thinking at some point, and let our natural abilities take control.  Admittedly, this is counterintuitive to every fiber in our being –and another reason why golf is a good primer for leadership.

(I feel like a disclaimer is needed here.  I write often about the need for reflection and planning.  Both are still vitally important.  The point is that at some point the game begins, and the planning must end prior to teeing up the first shot).

This year’s golf season could tempt me to keep sharing lessons I have learned.  For example, caring about what others think of my game, talking to myself in positive phrases rather than telling myself what not to do, and humbling myself by going to the doctor when my shoulder is hurt (rather than playing through it for two months), but I’ll stop here for now.

One last question to ponder before I end.  What lessons are you learning from your hobbies?  As hopefully I have demonstrated above, whatever you are doing can be filled with applicable lessons that help you in improve in your life and career.

Golf continues to drive me crazy, but the lessons make me better.

At least that’s what I have to make Sarah –and often myself –believe.

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Blog Housekeeping

Reflecting has become a major part of my weekly routine.  Not only do I utilize Michael Hyatt’s Full Focus Planner, I also have begun using his journal.  The journal gives 8 questions/prompts that help one reflect on their day.  My routine is to use the journal Monday through Thursday, and the weekly review in the Full Focus Planner on Fridays, leaving the weekend to recharge.

I share this because I have come to realize the power reflection has in one’s life. Setting aside a few moments to think about what you have been up to is powerful.  Course-corrections are a necessary part of self-leadership.  And let’s be honest, this world is moving faster than ever, so reflection of any kind is counter-cultural.  As the cliché goes, sometimes you have to go slow to go fast.

This blog was born from reflection.  As I have mentioned before, I started writing consistently after realizing in a reflection period that not keeping up a blog was one of my biggest disappointments of that particular year.  Hundreds of posts later, the consistency of writing is one of the things I am most proud about in terms of the blog.

Blogging helps me clarify, and make sense of, events happening in business and life.  Going forward, expect more of that.  In fact, I am challenging myself to open up more, especially about my faith in Jesus and how it intersects with work.  But, more about that in the weeks to come.  And as always, I realize that even mentioning the name of Jesus might turn some readers off.  This is not my intention.  So, before going any further, a friendly reminder that everyone is welcome here.  And that means everyone!

What outcomes do I hope to achieve through writing blog posts? I ask myself this often, so here are several thoughts:

Posts that lead to genuine relationships.Posts that encourage business leaders.Posts that challenge me, as well as the reader.Posts that humble me (writing about failures).Posts that share how broken I was, and in a lot of ways still am.Posts that are vulnerable, transparent, and even uncomfortable.Posts that make other people think, and possibly change. Posts that challenge people to think differently about Jesus and Christianity.Posts that inspire people to action.

One of the most powerful reflection questions for me is asking myself whether “I am practicing what I am writing about?” If reflection has taught me anything this year, it has taught me the need to slow down and become more intentional about implementing the various inputs (Bible, business books, podcasts, etc.) that I have in my life.  Similarly, I have to be careful in what I create because there is an alluring power to LinkedIn and Facebook “likes.” In short, the ego craves more, so it is tempting to keep posting in pursuit of what, in actuality, is futility.  Notice, more “likes” is not one of the outcomes listed above.

Therefore, upon reflection, I have decided to change the frequency of the posts that I write from 2 posts each week to “1-ish” post per week.

What can the reader expect with this change?

  1. My main post will come out Monday afternoons or Tuesday mornings.
  2. I commit to have it out before lunch on Tuesday.
  3. You don’t have time to read War and Peace, so I do not plan on changing the length.“1-ish?”
  4. There may occasionally be more than one post per week.
  5. Video will only be used for the occasional extra post, as I have gotten mixed reviews on those.
  6. The content will be largely the same.
  7. More interaction with you. Seriously, I’d like to build relationships off writing the blog. (Solicitors be warned: The few small hairs on my head stand on end when someone writes me an “I love your blog” email and then tries to sell me on something. I understand you have a job, but resist the marshmallow.
  8. For the team at Hoffer Plastics, I want to re-allocate the hour or so a week that had been reserved for blog writing, and use it to build more one-on-one relationships with individuals, especially those of you that work on our manufacturing floor.
  9. In sum, I want to spend more time practicing what I am writing about.

I have gone on long enough, so I think you get the idea.

I love writing this blog.  Thank you for reading it.  Thank you for putting up with my craziness.  And thank you for taking your own leadership seriously.

(A special note to those who subscribe to this blog.  As I alluded to above, the blog will be undergoing a “refresh.”  Stay tuned because when that “refresh” occurs (probably in November), you will need to re-subscribe to get each post delivered to your inbox.  Don’t worry, I’ll be reminding you as we get closer).

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The Beauty of Work Problems

It was a week before Christmas. Our 6-week-old son, Ben, was terribly sick.  So sick that he could hardly breath.  He had RSV, and things progressed from the doctor’s office, to the hospital, to the hospital with the best PICU in our area.  Thankfully, our story ended on Christmas Eve when we took Ben home.  Today, he is staring down his fifth birthday, and I am still convinced that the lovely nurses at PICU gave him some kind of “performance enhancing drugs” because he not only grew rapidly after departing the hospital, but he has also never slowed down!

What absolutely destroyed me from that experience was not our situation.  To be sure, RSV is very serious for a six-week-old.  But, the odds were vastly in our favor.  Next door, however, was a little child fighting something –I don’t know exactly what—and what destroyed me was the Christmas tree.  You don’t put a Christmas tree in a temporary room.  You only put it in a room that you will be spending the entire season in.

I can still see that tree in my mind’s eye.

I pray for those parents and those kids.

In fact, I recently was driving to Chicago for a speaking engagement and drove by the Ann & Robert H. Lurie Children’s hospital.  As I drove by, I turned the radio off and just began praying out loud for the parents, kids, and doctors:

Please heal one kid, Lord.

Please guide each doctor, and give them wisdom, insight, and focus.

Please help each parent persevere.  Comfort them with the peace that surpasses all human understanding of how this could be going on.

We live in a fallen, broken, world.  And it sometimes sucks.

I don’t know how to transition, so here is the point of this post:

The next time you feel that work is “out of control,” and the stress is getting to you, thank God for work and its problems.

In fact, the beauty of work problems is that they are only work problems.

Let’s own that.

And to every mom or dad that can identify with anything written above, I am praying for you.  I can think specifically of a mom and dad we know that is walking their daughter through an unimaginable situation, and inspiring us all in the process.  I can also think of a mom and dad at our church, whose son is in heaven after a brain tumor.  I’m still amazed at your courage and faith (and I still want to do coffee, so come on over to HP).

If you can identify with any of this, let me know.

I will pray for you, too.

Deal?

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End the Work Day

When is your work day completely over?

In the last week, there have been two times that I have ignored my kids after reading emails in the evening that worked me up and claimed my mental attention.  As I mentioned in prior posts, my official email stop time is at 8 p.m., so in both cases I was following my strategy. And in both cases, I failed at focusing on what matters most.

Maybe you are better than me, and never allow emails to irritate you.  After all, I don’t blame the senders of either email.  The only person I can control is myself.

But still, what are we giving up checking email well into the night?

What are we even proving?

Anyone can respond quickly.  More problematic, when we tirelessly pursue the never-ending cycle of being “on” and being available, we inevitably become “burned out,” crabby, and thoughtless because no one has the bandwidth to craft thoughtful messages 24/7.

Occasionally, I hear leaders say that their team needs them to respond.  If so, maybe they built the wrong team?

Upon reflecting on this, I have decided to stop checking email past 6 p.m. on work nights.  This is hardly revolutionary, but it is a change for me, and a win for my kids and wife.  To be sure, I informed my team of this change and told them that I am always available in the case of an emergency via my cell phone.  In fact, I prefer to have actual conversations over texting and emails (what a thought!).  They can call me if they need me, but 99% of the time they won’t.

Maybe the time I have chosen does not work for you.  I know one CEO who does a lot of her work in the late afternoon and evening.  She also has a much slower start to her day, with plenty of time for thinking, journaling, and meditating.

The point is that you can’t always be on, and it takes intentionality to set boundaries around your work hours.

The work day simply has to end.

(Anyone reading this from Hoffer Plastics, please identify when you are stopping.  Let people know how they can get a hold of you in case of an emergency, and give yourself a break!  We will be better for it).

As I often say to our team members, I don’t want your spouses and kids hating me because you work too much.

Neither do I want my kids growing to hate Hoffer Plastics because Daddy is always focused on business.

The stakes are that high.

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Getting to Know the “Other”

I often comment in the middle of posts that I write about what I think my wife, Sarah, will say to me when she edits the post.  I can do this rather accurately because I know my wife better than anyone else on the planet.  Likewise, she knows me better than anyone else.  This intimacy takes time, and intentionality, to develop.  The best marriages are a continual journey of “other-centered discovery,” for my wife and I know each other much better today than we did the day we said “I do.”

I make mention because I have noticed an alarming trend in our modern society.  As we continue to divide into left, right, religious, non-religious, etc., we are more able to shut out all inputs from the “other” side than ever before in human-history.  Don’t like the opposing view on your twitter or Facebook feed?  Unfollow, hide, or silence.  Want more of your tribe’s viewpoint?  Follow, read, and listen.

While there are several reasons this phenomenon continues to gain momentum, I think one of the main reasons is that people want to feel part of something.  They want to be “in.” They want to be liked.

The obvious application to the workplace is that we, leaders, need to create an environment where everybody feels “in.” We need to set the tone, cast the vision, and explain why it all matters.  Most importantly, we have to continually remind people that they matter and that the work they do is critical to others.

We also need people on our team that are able to ask the question “what is the other person thinking?” and mean it.  “Meaning it” means that they probe, non-judgmentally, to understand the other’s viewpoint:  What does the business look like from their vantage point?  How do my actions make their job harder? Or, do they make it easier?  Do I know anything about their family, or what they do outside work?  Are there any circumstances in their life that could be making work more difficult?

This kind of work takes intentionality, but it is worth it.  Understanding the “other’s” circumstances, and point-of-view, brings one closer to the other person.  This doesn’t mean that everyone agrees on difficult subject matters.  It just means that opposition remains civil, and conflict remains productive.  Rather than disputes morphing from “you’re wrong” to “you’re evil,” or even “you’re un-American,” they stay respectful.

Above all, this kind of culture has to be modeled at the top by the leaders of the organization.  We have to be accepting.  We have to be listening.  We have to be on a never-ending “others-centered discovery.”

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Organizational Pride

In any physical endeavor, there is a line between pushing yourself too far and not pushing yourself enough.  As I wrote about recently, I have not only been dealing with a shoulder injury lately, I have been pushing through the pain.  After all, improvement is always hard.

At some point, however, I have to ask myself the question of whether or not I am going too far?  In other words, are the exercises I am doing actually having a detrimental effect to my shoulder?  Are they making matters worse?

Am I just pushing through the pain because of my ego?

Because I am plain old stubborn?

Or, because of my pride?

(Yes, to all three.  Thank you for your grace, Sarah).

When I walk through the doors of Hoffer Plastics, the same line exists.  How many of our initiatives are we holding on to just because we want to push through the pain, or because they worked “in the good old days?” Or, what are the repercussions for the “we don’t fail” mantra that we sometimes willingly embrace to make sure said initiative or project succeeds at all costs?  Amazing as those successes are, what are we neglecting because of that pursuit? (And one has to wonder if the answer to the first question is significant if we can claim any success at all).

To be clear, there is no “secret sauce” as to where this line is.  And truth be told, it is one of the reasons that as a leader, the most common prayer request I give is for wisdom.  It may sound simplistic, but it takes wisdom to understand the difference between pushing through adversity, and saying “enough!”

It also takes a leader grounded in humility.  While I can’t speak for you, this is always a struggle for me, just not in the way most suspect when they hear the word humility.  C.S. Lewis said that humility “is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less.”  Truth be told, my struggle is nailed right here – If I don’t push through the pain, if I don’t hit the numbers I set out to hit, I think of myself as a failure.  But in doing so, I’m putting all the focus of my mind on me and how circumstances reflect on me.  A truly humble leader doesn’t even care.

I close with humility because it is the antidote of pride.  In the spiritual sense, those of us who follow Christ are freed to focus on others because we no longer have to prove ourselves. For Jesus has already paid the price for us, there is nothing we can do to earn our worth.  We may struggle, as I struggle, with self-centeredness and pride, but this does not lessen the reality of this truth for us.

Similarly, organizationally we have to get to the point where we are centered on some ultimate reality. We have to know our “true north,” and what our defining metrics really are, so that we can say “enough” when our pride tempts us to continue marching on when the truth is that we are only “marching on” so that we feel better about ourselves.

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It Is (Still) Supposed to Be Hard

Why am I surprised when I get injured at the gym?  As I write these words, I have a shoulder injury, tightness in my quadriceps, and I feel run down.  The Evernote file I use to track my lifts tells me that I have made progress the last thirty days, yet progress has come with pain.

It is hard to grow.

I come to work.  Why am I surprised that things are (still) hard here? Implementing IQMS while running near capacity was anything but easy.  People issues still pop up.  A family member gets sick, so an early retirement comes.  Do we have a “bench” that can fill that personnel need?  Or, perhaps the retirement was coming for two years.  Did we build the successor up, and were they ready when their time began?

All the while the customer knocks.  They have their issues, and to do this right, those issues had better be ours.  We’d better anticipate them.  We’d better address them.  And most of all, we’d better help them win.

None of this is easy.

Like my shoulder, it can often hurt.

Leadership happens while all this other stuff is happening.

It is one thing to command people to go in a certain direction (I call this management), and another to grab the trekking pole and start climbing the mountain with others following (true leading).  When things get messy on the hike, and they most assuredly will if the ascent is worthwhile, all you – the leader –can control is you.  You can’t control those following you.  If they complain, if they grumble, if they threaten to quit, commanding them to keep on only works for so long.  Rather, the leader has to control their own attitude and effort.  When things become awful, they must set the example that others can see when they look forward.

Things will get awful.

Things will go wrong.

It will remain hard.

We should stop being surprised by this reality.

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